Hey Gracey...
Welcome to MATES! Glad you have found us okay...
Firstly, please try to stay calm... Because you should know that there are many people here that have ET, and who have been around for quite some time...
One member is Katie. Katie has ET and she is 78 years old... (Although I hope she won't mind me telling you her age).
And Kate is still happy and managing to live well even with ET over a very long time ...
You will soon find out that many, actually... MOST people with an MPN like ET, can and do still live very long and very useful lives...
I am sure that both Katie, Merry & Warwick will be along soon to welcome you to MATES, where we have a growing membership of people that have a variety of different types of Myeloproliferative Neoplasms (MPNs). That's what they call these rare types of blood disorders...
It is also quite normal to feel a bit afraid at first, but after a while... Well, we just all learn how to get on with our lives, and you will too...
It is true that HU can be hard to adjust to in the beginning, however, many people get used to it after a while... Others, might go on to find other drugs that work better for them...
Because you are still quite young, you might not need to take as much HU as other people (?) But really, only your medical team should be making those decisions...
As we are all just Patients here... But we can ask doctors for their opinions every now & then, to try to help find answers to questions for you...
Sometimes Gracey, it is worthwhile to ask a different doctor in your own country for a 2nd opinion about what drugs you might need to be taking...
In any event, you can always find us here to talk to about your worries and concerns... Just remember Gracey, only a few people with ET go on to become fatally ill... The other 85-90% live almost completely normal lives...
Stay positive & strong because the news is not all bad after all... okay?
Best wishes
Steve